What Do You Want Now?

Young people (teens & 20s):

Belonging & identity. They want to know who they are and where they fit.
Experiences over stuff. Travel, concerts, social events, even digital experiences (games, VR).
Independence & freedom. Making their own choices without parents leaning over their shoulders.
Hope for the future. They care about climate, fairness, and opportunity — even if not always consciously.

Middle-aged folks (30s to 60s):

Security. Not just money, but stability in job, health, and home.
Family & relationships. Raising kids, supporting parents, keeping connections strong.
Meaningful success. Not just a paycheck, but something that matters — a legacy or purpose.
Health maintenance. They start to notice the body keeping score.

Elderly (70+):

Health & vitality. Every extra day of energy is precious.
Connection. Loneliness kills faster than bad diet — companionship and being remembered mean a lot.
Peace of mind. Less drama, more ease. They want simplicity and calm.
Legacy. What’s left behind — not just money, but wisdom, love, and stories.

The through-line for all ages is connection PLUS meaning — but the way it shows up changes radically.

what happens after the body drops?

You find yourself floating in the in-between.

Here’s a sort of “map” that might help you get oriented:

Immediately after death
There’s usually a sorting-out period. People often don’t realize they’ve dropped the body. Some hang around familiar places, some drift, some get confused. The SuperBeacon folks would call this the “Oh no, not this again” moment — it happens every passage through the Veil, at least once.
The Review
There’s a mandatory life review, not as punishment but as clarity. You see the ripples of your actions — what you gave, what you withheld, how others felt in response to your choices. It’s not judgment, more like a playback.
The Pull of Resonance
You get drawn to the frequency you’ve been carrying. If you’ve been living in fear and anger, that’s the stream you catch. If you’ve cultivated love, service, humor, or God-State awareness, you slide into higher, lighter spaces.
The Between-Lives State
This is where most people cool off. Time isn’t the same — could feel like minutes, could feel like centuries. It’s a place of rest, learning, and regrouping. You often meet with guides, teachers, or your own higher self. Choices get made about the next incarnation — sometimes freely, sometimes under the influence of karmic magnetism that you haven’t yet quite burned off completely.
The Prep Room
Before coming back, there’s a kind of “fitting room.” You try on circumstances, families, possible challenges, and growth opportunities. Not always what the ego would choose, but always precisely tailored to the soul’s next lesson.
And then… Back In.
The lights flash, you’re in a tiny, wet, human body again, trying to figure out which way is up. And you carry, deep down, the unspoken memory: “Wait… I’ve done this before.”

The funny thing is, chocolate does tie into this — because in the between-lives state, small anchors from this life — smells, tastes, textures — can act as memory triggers, helping you remember who you are and where you’re from. A blessed chocolate nugget could carry that signal even through the Third Bardo.

Bardo Chocolate

They say you can’t take it with you — but maybe you can.

Not the gold, not the house, not even your favorite chair. But the taste of something? The vibration of something blessed? That you can carry.

Imagine this: you leave the body behind, step into the in‑between, and everything feels slippery. You’re not sure who you are, or where the edges are, or which way is forward. Then—out of nowhere—you catch the lingering memory of a blessed chocolate wheel melting on your tongue.

Not the sugar, not the cocoa, but the frequency. The gentle, steady note that tells you:
“You’ve been here before. You know the way. You’re safe.”

In that moment, the Bardo stops being a haunted carnival ride and becomes a passageway. A familiar path. A reminder that you still carry blessings, even without a body.

That’s why one chip a day isn’t just a treat — it’s training. Each melt‑on‑the‑tongue moment is a rehearsal for the journey to come. A way of planting markers in the soul’s memory, so when the big trip arrives, you won’t be lost.

So no, you can’t take the chocolate itself.
But the song of it? That goes with you all the way up.

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The “Daily Wheel” works both ways, up and down, which makes it kind of perfect. Try it and see:

On the surface, it’s the little chocolate nugget you melt on your tongue each day.
Underneath, it hints at the daily grind, the karmic wheel, samsara turning… but instead of being ground down, you’re training for freedom.
And as a daily ritual, it becomes a marker, a practice, something you can lean on when the Bardo comes knocking.

So “Daily Wheel” carries the flavor of humor (daily grind), practicality (a one‑chip practice), and depth (breaking the cycle of forgetting).

Here’s something that might help along the way. If you have trouble remembering it don’t worry, you will be reminded of it through readings. It goes like this:

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All Phenomena is illusion
Neither Attracted Nor Repelled
Not making Any Sudden Moves
My Habits Will Carry Me Through.

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A holiday for the soul.

One Step Beyond
This Labor Day, join us on Zoom for a two‑day workshop filled with discovery, laughter, and real connection. A great chance to ask questions, share insights, and see friends — while stepping beyond the daily grind into higher work.

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Oh, gosh, here’s the Bardo bus already! Hop on board!

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See You At The Top!!!

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