Undergoing a Process of Change brings about many unusual things, but the most unusual of all is also the thing that can trip you up and make you want to stop growing, and that’s this truth: People around you are dedicated to keeping you as you are. What that really means is that every change you want to make in your personality, your life-style, your environment and your work-life will be powerfully resisted by those who depend on you to always be the person they think you are. This tends to keep you stuck.
I can help you get unstuck. Read on.
In order to understand how to deal with this well-meaning but totally unconscious knee-jerk reaction of resistance to your changes, mostly from family and friends, but you’ll also get this at work and even in public from random strangers, because the Universe always knows what you’re up to — you need to get a handle on what’s happening with them so you’ll know how to make it easier for them to accept that you’re changing from the person they know.
Listen, this issue of resistance from close family and friends is a lot more serious than you might think, but give credit where credit is due; you are very attached to your past, whether you think so or not.
There’s always nostalgia for the past, and there’s a very good reason for it. It’s safe. Whatever happened to you, it already happened. No surprises. As is said in the Stock Market, “The Market Hates Uncertainty”. When you start to change, you become an Uncertainty Factor, and that’s scary to folks all around you, because they don’t understand why you’re changing and why you’d ever want to change from a dull zombie into something else, they don’t know what.
Well, look at it from their Point of View; you’re safe at home with family and friends. You have an okay job with okay pay and a chance to retire at 55 with cut funds if you want or need to. You had a decent education, although you never really learned anything at school; the important things you learned at Recess.
You go through life for a few years or decades without ever wondering how you got there. Maybe it’s time to look at that now. Most of what became of you was a result of accident and blundering into people and situations and, being the Opportunistic Tool-User that you are, you found ways to fit in and be cool.
Somewhere along the way, something happened to you, something really unusual, and if you ask folks who find their way here how they got here, they probably won’t be able to pin it down, but every single one of them had one common experience. A powerful electrical shock, somewhere in their past history.
That shock delivered by the Universe was a Wake-Up Call. It doesn’t happen to the general population, and we’ll talk sometime about why that is; briefly, they never have to, and wouldn’t be able to, anyway. They’re called “Flatties” or NPCs, Non-Player Characters. They can interact, emote and signal, but that’s basically all they do. Machines, just like the ones you encounter in videogames, except they’re flesh-and-blood.
If you understand your Quantum Physics, you’ll know how funny that is.
Fundamentally, there is little difference between a flesh-and-blooder and a computer character, except that the computer character has a slightly better chance of achieving something than the F&B, and I’ll tell you why:
The computer character has easy-access code, and the fleshy types tend not to. The crap that accumulates in the brain and nervous system is stored and retrieved in a very messy manner.
This makes reprogramming the organic self very difficult, actually almost impossible.
I say “almost”, and I’ll outline the exception herewith:
Organic Life is rife with opposition. You’d think it’d come from outside, mainly, but it doesn’t. Resistance to Change means that there’s an existing condition and it’s well within the Comfort Zone.
Strangers don’t know the Existing Condition, therefore don’t resist change from that condition, having no clue to its existence.
Gosh, I hope that didn’t confuse you. Let me see if I can clarify for you what I mean.
Your friends think they know you; your actions and reactions have become for them reliable, steady, predictable. They are aware of the full range of your life-games and personal interactions, and would prefer not having to learn a whole new set of rules.
That’s it, in a nutshell.
So if you’re a drunk, they’ll help you remain a lush. If you’re into your nose, they’ll help you stuff it full of the same stuff they’re hooked on. If you’re an asshole, it’s to their distinct advantage to keep you that way.
Humans Resist Change.
Not just in themselves. In YOU.
If you don’t take this important clue into consideration, you’re in for some tough times.
Be kind to your friends and family; they really don’t get it, and here’s a Life-Tip worth a million bucks:
You don’t have to convince anyone that you’re right, in order to change your Life!!!
Heck darn, let them think what they want. What I mean by that is, you don’t have to inflict your views on them in order to do what you want to do with the rest of your life. You don’t need their approval. Or do you?
Hmmm…That’s a Hallowe’en Thought. What if you really can’t make that change without the approval of friends and family?
Why stop at merely approval? Why not try for approbation? A little applause never hurt anyone.
And actually, that’s how the magic of Prosperity Path works:
When no change in a situation is possible in any ordinary way, why not try changing things in a Parallel World and hopefully, the effect will “seep” into this universe?
Hey, it doesn’t hurt to try. Many have succeeded. You can read their stories and when you use Prosperity Path, especially for the Benefit of Others, you can join them in their success.
Family and friends won’t respond to reason? Can’t understand your goals and purposes? You can’t think of anything to say or do that will make sense to them? Not to worry, here’s the Prosperity Path way to handle it:
Run the Prosperity Path Remedy Approval, and let Magic work for you. It’s not really Magic, it’s simply the influence coming from a Parallel World in which all your friends and family totally approve of you unconditionally, and you’re applying that force to this world, see?
In other words, you’re using the fact that in some world or worlds, your family and friends hold you in the highest regard for what you are, not for what they’ve come to expect from you, and you’re applying that force just as you would join two roads into a single road, and you don’t have to know how to do it, just run the Orb and let all the mechanics do it for you.
In the end, you’ll feel better and no matter whether you feel the influence from other dimensions, it’s a better way to handle it than direct confrontation, which is deadly.
Don’t push from outside. Break ’em from within, to paraphrase Shakespeare.
In the end, creating change through Prosperity Path and not through direct action, you’ll do better, feel better and get far, far better Life Results. Prosperity Path will bring your statistics up; just watch your Chart zoom!
When you feel good, things go good.
See You At The Top!!!
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